I'm going to start with the negative sides of living in China. I don't have any because I'm a huge fan of China. The only thing that I can mention that foreigners struggle with is the food. But eventually, you get used to the food, and you are going to enjoy it. The positive sides are everything because I am a huge fan of China. Everything about China is very nice. As I always mention, it's one of the safest counties for foreigners, especially for women.

At first, I’d spend forever on one message. Then delete it. Then nothing. Just stared at my phone. I found this site Dating.com relationship tips, and it gave me something to start with. Small quotes, easy words. Didn’t fix everything, but it made texting her feel less scary. I actually look forward to it now.